When there is no direct way

Hearing an inexorable call, for a long time, sometimes painfully, you explore yourself: where is it calling you, what, why. And you boldly begin the path of a hero. This is where the fun begins.

After long reflection (of course, if you can afford it), you come to the conclusion that there is no direct way. And you start laying out your roadmap, with transfers and stops, intermediate stations and expectations, collecting resources and getting rid of the excess. Is it correct?

Exactly yes.
But here there is one, but a very big “but”.
All this is completely justified when you know the point of the final path – that amazing place, goal, result, where your path will move to a qualitatively new round of evolution.

But if you don’t know this point, life turns into ordeal and empty vacillation – it also seems like a path, but it’s hard to say where it will lead.

So how do you know where to go? And again I will offer a metaphor for reflection. When planning to climb a mountain, they know all the details, understand the dangers, study the needs that may arise along the way, and, in the end, plot the route.

Sometimes the preparation process takes years, and the journey takes days. Is it justified? I think it is completely justified – both in the mountains and in life.

– Before starting the journey, it is important to consider the route. Then there will be many times less losses, and many times more joy.
– Understand your stock of resources – both spiritual and physical.
– Learn the dangers and have the skills to deal with difficulties.
– Come up with route B and prepare for it too.

It all sounds a little paranoid, of course, but the result is activity and hours of contact with the task.

Draw your path. Play with this image and focus on the end point of your goal. What’s there?

This is important for your growth, otherwise, you will have to be saved from your call, and this is no longer the path of a hero, but the path of suffering. The subtle facets of being, like narrow paths on the way, must also be recognized, as well as guides.

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@Victoria Nazarevich 2020

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