Philosophy of life
We often harbor our desires for a long time without even starting to realize them. It’s as if this desire is a holy water grail, and we don’t deserve it or we can’t.
I have seen this a thousand times with my clients, who seem to be walking in circles around their desired life. What is this mechanism and why is this happening? This mechanism can be reduced to several vectors:
1. Experience in the implementation of the desired in childhood. If a child was buried all his dreams, he will do the same himself, already in adulthood. The mother’s simple phrase in response to the child’s desire “You can do without it” becomes a matrix in his mind and future desires.
2. Fear that things will get worse. This fear is one of the strongest, since its basis is stability. And stability is the basic state that a person aspires to. But we very often find ourselves in the trap of stability: after all, if we have an idea, it means that it will lead to an even more stable situation, and if we don’t implement it, then it will lead to logical destruction in order to develop life itself.
3. Destructive attitude to time. A very interesting phenomenon is “not yet the time to implement this idea.” But what did you do today to make that time come? Just waiting is just killing your idea or desire. We must act, albeit slowly, but constantly.
4. Self-prohibition on the implementation of the idea. Thinking it won’t work is okay. But doing nothing at the same time is death. Doing and understanding what may not work out is the right decision, this is the most valuable experience. Success experience! Not the experience of failure.
5. The desire to get everything and immediately destroys a lot of ideas. But any idea or desire goes through several stages: origin, preparation for implementation, active actions, manifestation of the idea, development of the idea. Different logic – different result!
6. Someone else’s idea or phenomenon “like everyone else” is the original path to failure. We are all so different and interesting that everyone has the potential for their own and unique. But if we do not want our own, then we get trials in which we are taught to understand our own. This is a difficult path. Perhaps it is easier to find Your ideas and Your desires right away.
7. Faith works miracles. This is the part without which it is impossible to live, and even more so to create ideas. After all, the world is already fine without your ideas. But if we sincerely believe that with its implementation we ourselves will become happier, then the World will meet us halfway. I don’t believe in failure, it’s just a poorly organized system for preparing the implementation of an idea.
Therefore, it is necessary to create deeds and give birth to ideas, because only in this way the world will continue to live!
PS Dedicated to all those who doubt
Victoria Nazarevich 2020
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