Why do we need others?

Why do we need others?

 

 

A person, of course, can live alone, and sometimes at the same time he is even completely happy, but I want to say with complete confidence: we need others. If we didn’t need family and friends, colleagues and other people in our lives, then this would probably be in the nature. You know, like some animals: born, and after 3 months the mother cannot distinguish her cub from other members of the group; or like turtles, for example, hatched – and in free swimming through life. So why does a person need such a large number of “others” throughout his life? Most likely, in the logic of nature, a person in himself is very valuable, and therefore he needs to convey the experience of all mankind and, as a result, evolution as much as possible. And this is possible only through others in our lives. Because if this experience is not passed on, then in 3-4 generations without technology we can run wild to the primitive level of primitive man. And forget even the simplest knowledge for survival. But at the same time, if we are together and there are many of us, then the level of social support helps to survive in any cases, creates conditions for development and evolution. One will definitely not be able to resist the entire onslaught of reality, and therefore it is definitely better to be with those who are close to you in spirit.

    • Therefore, it is important to look for loved ones for a joint journey through life;
    • Therefore, it is important to create families; without a family, many meanings are lost;
    • Therefore, it is important to look for friends – those with whom it will be easier and more interesting for you to live the next stage of life;
    • Therefore, it is important to look for colleagues – people with whom you can go side by side along the path of excellence;
    • Therefore, it is important to earn teachers who want to share experience and wisdom with you, for you are worthy;
    • Therefore, it is important to live politely with neighbors, because the spaces around us are also part of us;
    • Therefore, it is important to have just acquaintances so that they help organize information;
    • Therefore, it is important to have people who will complement you on the way to your dream;
    • Therefore, it is important to have people who will show you your growth area for personal change.

Relationships are a valuable investment!

It is very important for us to be with someone, because we are people. But being among people is very difficult. It is always a compromise: understanding and acceptance, patience and joy from communication, the desire to retire and be with someone.

A quite logical question arises: “Well, how can creativity help here?”. I think it’s very simple.

    1. Creativity will provide an opportunity to concentrate on life itself and identify tasks and people who will help with this. To do this, sit in a calm and relaxed environment, get everything ready for creativity and draw your dream team, your dream partner and everyone who is very relevant now in your life.

    2. The second practice is self-improvement. Grab a few magazines and pick faces that you think reflect the qualities you need to achieve your dreams. Let these qualities and portraits be at least three. Find and glue them on one sheet, signing the qualities that you need. So visual concentration on these qualities will keep them in the focus of consciousness, and the likelihood of their formation and, as a result, manifestation increases dramatically.

    3. The third practice is an opportunity to play a little and dream up at the same time. Imagine that you are the shaman of an ancient village and you have your friendly fellow villagers who, like you, work for the benefit of the entire village. Together you perform rituals to bring good luck and results to your village. Draw or create masks for this ritual and draw the shaman circle and your fellow villagers. So we seem to plunge into our genetic memory, when being in a group of like-minded people was vital.

 

Victoria Nazarevich 2019 ©

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