Are there happy relationships?

 

Are there happy relationships?
Yes… but temporarily.
7 conclusions about how to live among people

1. It is difficult for everyone with others, and even difficult with oneself, so the conclusion is: even with a Divine person it will not be easy. History proves this conclusion. Well, I do not believe in relationships without obligations and tasks. Do not believe me – live with a person for four years in any form of relationship.

2. Everything is temporary, and relationships too. Remember the law of dialectics: everything flows, everything changes, you cannot step into the same river twice. And the sweetest and most beautiful relationships should be kept in your memories. Because this will go away! Therefore, I propose to keep an artbook of relationships so that there is something to remember.

3. All relationships are based on mutual benefit. It may or may not be obvious, conscious or not, but it is there. And you definitely need to try to understand why you need this or that relationship. Some make life easier or easier, others compensate for needs, and in some it is resourceful and interesting. And the answer gives arguments in favor of investing your time and effort in others.

4. You change, and the more you transform yourself, the worse the relationship seems to be. As soon as you become different, logically, there are changes in the circle of people in different relationships with you. And for some unknown reason, previously close people endow you with unpleasant characteristics, but this is the only way they are able to leave you. The effect of evolution is different, often bad or alien.

5. The better you are, the more requirements you have. The world is logical, and if you have something to give, everyone and even the bum at the station will demand it from you. Well, what to do here, perhaps, rejoice. You have everything! But here it is important to protect your borders from destruction by other people’s needs. Vandalism in relationships is not uncommon.

6. If you are bored and sick, you have to run. Since in such a relationship there is no growth and joy. But run not to others, but to yourself. After all, only if you are magical with yourself, you are able to work a miracle for others. Everyone’s already frayed search for oneself here is completely justified.

7. Learn to draw conclusions correctly. There are no insults and disappointments, and betrayal is only a matter of time. If the energy exchange is gone, the relationship will also go away. Making room for new options to explore yourself through the other.

@ Victoria Nazarevich 2020