{"id":25402,"date":"2023-06-14T12:26:33","date_gmt":"2023-06-14T09:26:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/art-therapy\/self-preservation-or-how-to-bury-preserve-but-not-live\/"},"modified":"2023-06-14T12:26:33","modified_gmt":"2023-06-14T09:26:33","slug":"self-preservation-or-how-to-bury-preserve-but-not-live","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/self-preservation-or-how-to-bury-preserve-but-not-live\/","title":{"rendered":"Self-preservation or how to bury (preserve) … but not live"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. One of the basic fears is the fear of change. This “species” fear comes from the survival instinct and everyone has it. Will I be able to survive in these new conditions and not suffer? And so, in order not to take risks once again, it is better not to waste energy and not change anything. This is the biological logic of fear. And we conserve our lives in order to conditionally preserve the imaginary integrity, as if in a tin can. And such an idea of \u200b\u200bpassive self- preservation is completely absurd, in a situation where 90% of the information has appeared in the last 2 years.<\/span><\/p>\n

As we plunge into the fear of change, we disconnect from possibilities, and sometimes we are separated from life by the already familiar and safe rituals of the past. Lifestyle, thinking and ways of being are irrevocably satisfied in the new reality and it is quite difficult without help, in the future, to find your new place.<\/span><\/p>\n

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2. A person, as if in his own juice, lives reality without knowing the true taste of life, without seeing new options and opportunities, new facets of his Self, arriving day after day in anticipation that the screening of the film “Happiness” will soon begin. All that is acceptable for him is to arrive in his conditionally safe reality and eternal expectation.<\/p>\n

3. A “canned” person loses strength, constantly trying to avoid pressure from outside, but inevitably he is pulled out of his artificially created conditions of stability, then he is not able to understand who he is … and as if “pickled or” pickled “his taste for life is changed. To understand what qualities of survival he possesses is almost incomprehensible. And then suffering comes to the rescue as an already familiar experience leads a person to the formation of a new experience of survival.<\/p>\n

4. It is almost impossible to change the properties of a \u201ccanned\u201d person: he cannot become different, elastic and flexible, transform under the influence of the force of life; his own stereotypes and archaic attitudes in a fleetingly changing world inevitably lead him to failure, despair. And, as a result, a complete disappointment. Everyone will be to blame for this.<\/p>\n

5. We often conserve ourselves, not allowing ourselves to become aware of new sensations, not mastering new conditions of life. In this changeable and not constant world of information flow, which will never be correct, but will be different, incredibly different, it is probably better to follow the path of gradual evolution than to be mothballed, but not able to live.
\n2019 Victoria Nazarevich<\/a><\/p>\n

Let’s try to pull our clients out of the bank in which they mothballed themselves and took their lives.<\/p>\n

It’s possible!<\/p>\n

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The distance learning course on the “Pots +” method will help to understand and implement:<\/p>\n

– how to make it clear to the client “who he is”;
\n-discover its true qualities and meanings;
\n– to find mechanisms of possible transformations;
\n– to provide him with a hidden resource that he has conserved in himself for many years.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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