{"id":25384,"date":"2023-06-14T12:25:39","date_gmt":"2023-06-14T09:25:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/art-therapy\/it-s-just-not-possible-anymore-or-the-rules-of-the-new-reality\/"},"modified":"2023-06-14T12:25:39","modified_gmt":"2023-06-14T09:25:39","slug":"it-s-just-not-possible-anymore-or-the-rules-of-the-new-reality","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/it-s-just-not-possible-anymore-or-the-rules-of-the-new-reality\/","title":{"rendered":"It’s just not possible anymore or the rules of the new reality"},"content":{"rendered":"
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In the flow of information and taboo style patterns, it becomes difficult for us to conform to ourselves and at the same time feel comfortable in the realities of life. Let’s try to analyze what can facilitate this process. Here are a few rules that you can of course break:<\/i><\/span><\/div>\n
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Rule 1 “You can’t know everything”<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
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You can’t know everything, but the Internet knows everything. And to find exactly the necessary actual is the art of owning information, and therefore reality. To do this, it is important to know how highly qualified experts did it, believe me, they went through a long path of trial and error, sacrificing time and effort for many hours of sorting information garbage. It takes only 12 years to become an expert… so it’s very simple: someone who polishes his skills with knowledge and experience day in and day out can serve as an excellent source of expert opinion for you. But the \u201cone-day\u201d charlatans acquire this experience precisely on you. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Rule 2 “You can’t have everything”<\/b><\/span>
\nIn fact, any thing or service can be bought, but why? The modern consumer world loads consciousness with a constant virus of feeling of internal deficiency – this is a trap that has firmly entered the value system for several generations. What will be next? Are we going to buy 10 minutes of happiness of our own usefulness for a lot of money or is there another option? And we have to understand what we personally need, what we will use for many years and how this will affect the quality of our life. The test is simple, live with thoughts about \u201cI want to\u201d first for 3 days, then 3 months, and a larger \u201cI want\u201d can be tested for 3 years. Time in this case is the best indicator of true need. And I definitely don\u2019t need to sell someone else\u2019s I want for my own money. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Rule 3 “You can’t be with everyone”<\/b><\/span>
\nAn important rule of our time is to quickly enter into important and necessary contacts and just as quickly let go of these contacts. And here again we are waiting for the trap of today: people with whom you want to be \u201cforever\u201d. But even the very logic of life tells us that we will have to let go of even the people closest to us, and not just the people with whom we were united by business or mission. Everything is given to us temporarily for the purpose of energy exchange for certain life actions and stages, and then it leaves our lives. And if you want to be with someone long enough, do what is interesting for all the subjects of the process while maintaining an important connection. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Rule 4 “You can’t do everything” <\/b><\/span>
\nThe many different variations of reality give us an irresistible need to also be active within the social fashion. And here the main thing is to find your own version, your rhythm, your schedule of happiness. So as not to burn from doing that, <\/span>
\nwhat others are doing. How to understand: “What should I do, what I like?” Everything is simple here! If during some kind of activity it seems that time flies away, you did not notice that a day has passed – this is it and exactly there. <\/span><\/p>\n

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Rule 5 “You can’t be everywhere”<\/b><\/span>
\nThe world will offer more and more and lure you into its networks, where everything will seem important and absolutely necessary. And inevitably you will have to constantly be in the tension of choosing where to go, where to go, what to give preference to. And here, too, everything is simple, if your actions bring you closer to the goal, then it\u2019s right, but if they simply destroy your personal resource, then it\u2019s not worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

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Rule 6 “You can’t all be the same”<\/b>
\nEveryone accepts us differently, because even we ourselves either love, or scold, or get angry. And what to say about others? No one will ever understand the true reason for your actions, reactions, actions. And it remains only to come up with the most convenient version about you. Therefore, significant people will have to explain for a long and tedious time, but it\u2019s easy for everyone else – don\u2019t pay attention. Since nothing good and truthful will be said about you anyway: everyone has their own truth.
\nRule 7 “You can’t – it’s easy” <\/b>
\nEverything is everything. Everything has the power of action and the power of opposition, no one has canceled the physical side of life, and the more efforts and focuses of attention we spend on someone else’s opinion and other people’s truths, the further we go away from ourselves and the more painful the return will be. Therefore, within the framework of healthy egoism, one must first make oneself happy and joyful, and then perhaps everyone around will also become happier. There is good wisdom: “First feed your child, and then someone else’s.”<\/p>\n

Victoria Nazarevich 2019<\/b><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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