{"id":25188,"date":"2023-06-13T14:18:33","date_gmt":"2023-06-13T11:18:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/art-therapy\/therapeutic-love\/"},"modified":"2023-06-13T14:18:33","modified_gmt":"2023-06-13T11:18:33","slug":"therapeutic-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/therapeutic-love\/","title":{"rendered":"Therapeutic love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Each person, on his own or when life makes him think about it in the inevitability of self-consciousness, asks himself the question: \u201cWhat do I choose in this life?\u201d.<br \/>\nAre my results illusion or reality?<br \/>\nWhat do I need in a relationship &#8211; fear or love?<br \/>\nWho am I and why am I like this?<br \/>\nSleeping or awakened in the reality of this World?<br \/>\nSuffering or enjoying all the challenges of fate?<\/p>\n<p>And when it is not very clear, there is a so-called psychotherapeutic falling in love, which makes a person feel like he has never felt before.<br \/>\nIf we talk about the process, then it is like opening a vein of a precious stone. First, tens of tons of so-called waste rock are removed, behind which a thin vein of a precious stone is hidden. And here comes the most interesting.<br \/>\nSo therapeutic falling in love removes from us a layer of empty monotonous being, without a strong feeling, and opens the vein of our own precious soul. Developing a metaphor that is associated with the extraction of a precious stone, we are faced with a new choice: &#8220;What to do next?&#8221;.<br \/>\nUsually, a layer of precious stone is removed very carefully from the empty rock, and already in the workshops, the most favorable image of the precious stone is extracted for a long time and carefully.<br \/>\nHow do you like the metaphor?<br \/>\nI think this is the answer to why there are so many cases of therapeutic falling in love in the practice of psychotherapists. Since in the psychologist&#8217;s office, the best version of oneself, which was obtained through the feelings that were experienced, is cut from the still raw material.<\/p>\n<p>Well, then the choice is up to the client: make jewelry with this jewel and please yourself or hide it in a distant drawer and forget it almost forever.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>I hope you like this metaphor too!<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Let me know in the comments about your thoughts, ideas and reasoning.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>@ Victoria Nazarevich 2021<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;&#8230;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><em>Therapeutic stupor  <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Skin people, independently, if you think about life, think about it in inevitable self-respect, put your own question: \u201cWhat do I choose in this life?\u201d.<br \/>\nAre my results an illusion or a reality?<br \/>\nWhat do I need in return &#8211; fear or love?<br \/>\nWho am I and why am I like this?<br \/>\nI sleep chi already prokinuvshis for the reality of which world?<br \/>\nAm I suffering or am I enjoying myself with all the cliches of the lot?<\/p>\n<p>And if it\u2019s not too clear, it seems that this is the name of psychotherapeutic suffocation, as if a person feels so irritated, as if in no way.<br \/>\nTo say about the process, it is similar to the production of an expensive stone. To tidy up dozens of tons of the so-called empty rock, behind which there is a thin vein of expensive stone. The \u0406 axis here is nayts\u0456kav\u0456she.<br \/>\nThus, the therapeutic suffocation takes us from the ball of an empty one-man butt, without a strong mind, and reveals the power of a dear soul. Developing a metaphor, which is connected with the appearance of a precious stone, we opine in front of a new choice: \u201cWhat did you work for?\u201d.<br \/>\nSound even more carefully know the ball of expensive stone from empty rock and already in minesterns for a long time already create the most beautiful form of expensive stone.<\/p>\n<p>How do you like a metaphor?<br \/>\nI think that this is why it is attached to why in the practice of psychotherapists there are so many vipadkivs that are associated with therapeutic stagnation. Shards in the psychologist&#8217;s office from the still unfinished material form the shortest version for yourself, which you can get far away through the experiences you feel.<\/p>\n<p>Well, let&#8217;s choose for the client: work yourself to decorate with z\u0456\u0454\u0457 koshtovnosti and please yourself, or take away junk from afar and forget it forever.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>I spod\u0456vayus \u0456 you vouchsafed tsya metaphor!<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Tell me in the comments about your thoughts, ideas and reflections.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>@ Victoria Nazarevich 2021 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p><\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Each person, on his own or when life makes&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":21747,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1658],"tags":[1650,1651,1754,1653,1696,1752,1670,1677,1753,1702,1687],"class_list":["post-25188","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-psychologist-s-advice","tag-art-therapist-en","tag-art-therapy-school-en","tag-consultation","tag-creation","tag-drawing-psychology","tag-love","tag-nazarevich-art-en","tag-psychologists-advice","tag-therapy","tag-victoria-nazarevich","tag-what-is-art-en"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25188","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25188"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25188\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21747"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25188"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25188"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nazarevich-art.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25188"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}